Chances are you are here because of one thought floating about your mind. That thought is – get my wife back – get my wife back – get my wife back – I’m sure you get it.

I can sympathise with you because I was given the elbow in a big way and that single thought was my only thought for ages.

What you need first and foremost is a solid plan. You can get the info from the net, there’s loads of people who have gotten their partners back and have wrote their methods down.

I’m not saying it’s easy and I’m not saying it’ll happen overnight but it’s certainly something you can do (get your ex back) with a bit of effort.

The problem is time. Gathering info takes time. And knowing whether it’s any good is a whole new subject.

This is where other people’s experiences work for us. We all work on the same emotional levels so a method that is proven successful for thousands of others will no doubt work for us.

I’m a sceptic at heart and I thought I was throwing 40 bucks down the toilet but I was happy to be proved wrong. It worked for me.

I can’t claim that one psychological trick worked to get her back but it put into motion a chain of events. A chain that ended with us back as a couple.

I used the power of curiosity to get my wife to call me back after I left a message. I never even asked her to call me. But she did.

Curiosity is a massive driving factor in our lives. We are by nature curious to know. It’s more than that, it’s a need. We need to know.

I called my ex and left her a message. In that message I planted the seed of curiosity. Within a day she had called me back.

After this it was pretty smooth sailing as she had done the chasing. I hadn’t chased her at all. All I’d done was leave a simple message that I knew she’d be curious about.

I’d be willing to wager 99 out of 100 people would call back after receiving a message like that.

I had to capitalise on the fact she’d called me and this is where the rest of my plan came into play. Like I said earlier it isn’t my plan, I didn’t make it up, I bought it in a downloadable package for less than the cost of our last date before the split.

I don’t tell people in the real world but it was worth every penny to me. Truly it was. I would have paid many times the price had I known how good it would work.

I can’t go into detail here of the tips and tricks as it’s not fair to give away other peoples hard work.

I think if someone has taken the time to put their (successful) methods down on paper and packaged it up in an easy to follow plan, then the very least they deserve is the chance to sell their ideas to you.

What I can do though is point you in the right direction, the same direction I went in. When I was desperate to get my wife back it worked for me. I’m sure it’s worth a shot for you.

All said and done though she’s not coming back on her own. You have to make the first move. Or at least make the first move but make her think she made the first move. Powerful stuff my friend.