Making Up Without Endless Apologies

One of the mistakes many people make when trying to get their ex back is to say I’m sorry a thousand times.  There is nothing wrong with a good apology in many cases.  But saying I’m sorry over and over can actually cause your ex to move further away from you.  Learn more about how to get your ex back here.

Instead of apologizing repeatedly, there are better things to do to get your ex back.  First, don’t apologize if you did nothing wrong.  If you ex left because they drifted apart from you, apologizing would make you sound pathetic.

Next, if you did something wrong that you need to apologize for, that’s a good thing to understand.  To get your ex back, you need to understand what caused the break, and if it was something you did, you better be ready to apologize for it.

Before you ever get around to apologizing, do a few powerful things first.  To begin with, let’s say you committed adultery.  You cheated on your ex.  They kicked you out and are feeling a lot of betrayal and anger.  You can learn more about how to get your ex back specfics here.

Instead of rushing in and saying I’m sorry, start by admitting what you did wrong.  Your ex needs to know that you understand you did wrong.  So own up to it.  Do not justify or try to explain yourself.

The next important step is almost always overlooked.  And that is to get your ex to vent.  Venting allows your ex to get all their negative feelings out, off their chest.  So you must get them to and then let them vent before you apologize.

So fess up to what you did and then get them to release and vent their negative feelings.  If you do those things first, your apology will come across a lot better and have a much better chance of being accepted.

So if your ex deserves an I’m sorry, make it a powerful one.  And do that by letting your ex vent and letting your ex hear you own up to what you did wrong.  That way, you may be able to get your ex back in hours or a few days rather than waiting months hoping they’ll cool down and forgive you.  Go here for a free course on True Love Advice.