I guess everyone feels the same way, being dumped is never a nice thing to deal with, especially after you have put so much effort, energy, and love into making everything work fine. Well, you can pick yourself up and recover after being dumped and get your ex girlfriend back. This may be a challenging task for you, but it is definitely not impossible to do. After you were dumped, you need to give your ex girlfriend at least a week without calling her, so things can settle down and smooth over, expecially if the circumstances you were dumped in were really bad.

Wait about one week after the break up, then start calling your ex and tell her you just wanted to make sure that she is OK and that you are willing to sit down and talk with her about anyhting and that no matter of the break up you will be there for her in case she needs you. Whatever you do, do not let them know that you are hurting and that you want them back. Come off in conversation not as if you are trying to get them back, but as if you are just trying to be a good friend to them.

Next you should try sending flowers to them one week, nothing fancy, just a couple of lilies or something, not roses, just to let them know that they are on your mind and you hope that they are doing well. You can even invite your ex out for lunch or something simple so that you two can hang out and get to know each other all over again as friends first. At this point you do not want your ex girlfriend to believe that you are only acting like this, because you want to get her back, but instead show her that you ar eonly doing this, because you want to be a nice ex boyfriend. In the course of trying to get your ex girlfriend back, you should be trying new things that you had not tried with them before or things that they always wanted you to do while you two were dating, but you did not do, all the while making it seem like you are just trying to be a good friend and better person to them than you were.

It is a good idea to keep this routine of communicating with your ex girlfriend on a real friendly level for a while so that they will come to the point to realize what a nice guy you are and develop those feelings which they had for you once again. Since you will be showing your ex a totally new and different side of you than when you were dating, they will start thinking why they dumped you in the first place. This should eventually lead to you two developing a whole new relationship together both on a friend and intimate level. When you two do get back together, your relationship should be a whole lot better than it was before.

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